Guide people through the most personal formation work in the series — with pastoral depth and full preparation.

⚠ Facilitators only — not for participant distribution.

Participants in this workshop are naming displacement they may have never fully articulated, releasing agreements that have been quietly governing their self-understanding, and receiving covenant declarations that their actual lived experience has been contradicting. That is some of the most tender, most personal formation work in the Mantled for Marriage™ series. Leading it well requires pastoral preparation that matches the weight of what participants bring into the room. This guide provides it.

What's Inside:

• Zoom setup with specific guidance for this session's pastoral register — camera-off culture, pace adjustments and how to hold space for the level of honesty this workshop requires

• Full 90–120 minute session flow with facilitator timing and pastoral pace notes

• Welcome and framing scripts

• Teaching notes for all four teachings

• Guidance on holding the Pain Agreement Release exercise

• Guidance on leading the Re-Centered Identity Statement

• Exercise facilitation

• Difficult moments protocols:

• Crisis resources and pastoral referral guidance

• Full closing script, ecosystem pathway, and follow-up guidance