Identity Before Relationship™ — Mini Training Facilitator Guide
Everything you need to lead this 60-minute session with pastoral confidence.
⚠ Facilitators only — not for participant distribution.
This session touches some of the most personally honest territory a person can enter — where they have looked for identity, what they have needed relationships to confirm, and what God has already declared that they may not fully believe. Leading it well requires more than knowing the content. This guide gives you the full infrastructure to hold that space with pastoral care.
What's Inside:
Zoom setup checklist and breakout room decision guidance
Minute-by-minute 60-minute session flow with facilitator notes
Welcome script and warm-up chat engagement guidance
Teaching notes: The Sequence God Designed + Identity Rooted in Approval — key points, Scripture context, chat prompts
Guidance on facilitating the Covenant Identity Statement writing time — how to hold the space for the level of honesty this exercise requires
Exercise facilitation: Option A (breakout rooms) and Option B (solo reflection)
Difficult moments protocols: emotional disclosure, a participant whose identity displacement is acute, resistance to the declarations
Full closing script and post-session guidance
Who This Is For: Pastors, ministry leaders, small group facilitators, and coaches leading the Identity Before Relationship Mini Training via Zoom — with any relationship track audience.
