Lead this 60-minute session with the pastoral precision the material requires.

⚠ Facilitators only — not for participant distribution.

This session asks participants to name their default conflict pattern, identify what drives it, and apply a de-escalation framework to a real current tension. The material is immediately practical — and immediately personal. Leading it well means being prepared for both. This guide provides that preparation.

What's Inside:

• Zoom setup checklist and breakout room decision guidance

• Minute-by-minute 60-minute session flow with facilitator notes

• Welcome script and warm-up chat engagement guidance

• Teaching notes: What Conflict Reveals + De-Escalation Framework — key points, Scripture context, chat prompts

• Guidance on facilitating the practice exercise — holding the space for honest pattern recognition without self-condemnation

• Exercise facilitation: Option A (breakout rooms) and Option B (solo reflection)

• Difficult moments protocols: a participant in active conflict, emotional disclosure, a couple in visible tension

• Full closing script and post-session guidance