Conflict to Covenant™ — Facilitator Guide
Lead participants into honest self-examination of their conflict patterns — and out the other side.
⚠ Facilitators only — not for participant distribution.
This workshop asks participants to name their default conflict posture, identify the fear driving it, and apply a four-movement framework to a real current conflict — specifically and by name. That level of honesty requires a facilitator who can hold the space for what surfaces when people see their conflict patterns clearly for the first time. This guide prepares you for exactly that.
What's Inside:
Zoom setup checklist, breakout room guidance and recommended settings
Full 90–120 minute session flow with facilitator timing notes
Welcome and framing scripts
Teaching notes for all four teachings
Guidance on facilitating the Conflict Posture exercise
Guidance on the Conflict to Covenant Pathway Practice
Exercise facilitation
Difficult moments protocols
Crisis resources and pastoral referral guidance
Full closing script, ecosystem pathway and follow-up guidance
Who This Is For: Pastors, coaches, ministry leaders, and facilitators leading the Conflict to Covenant workshop online — with singles, couples or mixed relationship audiences.
Pairs Well With:
Conflict Without Collapse (de-escalation tools) and Alignment Over Agreement
